My L♥ve My Hopes My Dreams

Loooooooove Mariah Carey! So here's a super girly thing im into- renewing vows every year with my boo after you've been married a few years! #crossingfingers #wedding #marriage #dreams :)

Heidi Klum and Seal did it every year until they parted ways. Mariah Carey and Nick do it as well....it just sounds like a beautiful thing to do. 

You could start doing it the following year just one year into your marriage but you'll probably still be high off the fact that you're married to your love.....Id ride that wave a few years first but to each their own:)

but obviously anniversaries should be awesome badass and all kinds of EPIC from the start! If you can afford it something like a ....lavish vacation to Fiji or Hawaii.....Bali is beautiful too so i wouldn't mind going back there. What else... a nice weekend getaway  with friends  or a roadtrip in Europe could be cool.... Rock climbing in Maine http://www.shape.com/lifestyle/fit-getaways/12-places-go-rock-climbing-you-die/slide/2  Or super awesome country hoppin in Africa (Ethiopia is a MUST, Egypt is gorgeous....haven't been back in years. South Africa! Morocco!)
Or a nice picknick in the park, just the two of you! whatever you prefer as a couple.

O man, Diving would be so romantic!....I got my first certificate when I was 13 I think. been diving ever since but actually havent in a couple of years #saddsies #timeflies! :( So obviously, that needs to happen asap!

South Africa is a great location for that -check out this awesome list http://www.theguardian.com/travel/2006/dec/14/diving.top10.southafrica  My top favs on it are...

Sulawesi, Indonesia

Little Cayman, British West Indies

7. The Bismarck Sea, Papua New Guinea

8. Sipadan Island, Malaysian Borneo

10. Bikini Atoll, Marshall Islands

whatever we decide to do ,
<------ this  is SO going to be the song we dance to....Horizontally! Im such a swine sometimes -
Sorry! I just Had to throw in a dirty joke in there lmao. No but seriously, I adore this song "I'll be your lover too" by Van Morrison

not giving the hubby much choice here on the song selection am i ? lol. Man as much as I enjoy working hard, pursuing my goals (and achieving them) im all about love. Its the most beautiful thing you can have in life #blessed.
The things you can build, create, achieve when you have it....the patience, power, understanding you get with love in your life.....#nolimit.

I wish it for myself and I wish it for you. An ideal setup for me would be a few years with my Hubby where we get to enjoy each other and the world together. Then little awesome kids that would obviously be the most gorgeous creatures ON THE PLANET! I definitely wanna be a young mom...but not too young. Before 30 though...so i got time! but those things are hard to plan. Sometimes life has its own plan for ya:) I hope to be a successful Actress & writer. And that music always stays in my life. I hope  'Project Abel' grows and becomes a popular concept all over the world. For those of you who dont know, I started this charity project a few years back, its really more of an extention of something my grandmother Abeba, used to do back in Ethiopia. you can check out the blog http://projectabel.blogspot.com/ here if you're interested in staying updated on our missions.
what else....I hope my family stays united , that they each find success in all their endeavors....that they stay Happy and strong and healthy. That we continue to be good and kind people.

I love thinking and writing about all the things I want to do when I have love. I like saying it out loud. All the things I like to do on my own seems SOOO much more fun with the love of my life. Waterskiing, Rock climbing, Dancing, movies, acting, singing, writing... hell  just waking up and taking a shower suddenly is an adventure when you're Inlove, no? lol:)

With #Love, you can do anything so Be a good Lover! I don't mean in bed (well...definitely that too...super important lol!) but I mean....Love good as in.... Be kind, be respectful. Say sorry when you're wrong. Back off when you know you should. always him/her first. Their happiness, their dreams, this sorrow, their achievements, assuring your loved ones peace of mind is SO important and should be Nr 1. Because if what you have is real then YOU are his/her priority too.

Its not hard at all. Love is very easy. It gets hard when you try to fake it. if its not there, its just not. In which case if you're smart, someone you used to love can become a beloved friend. It all depends how you play it ...and what you want.

 people tend to sometimes focus on one person who's just not in love anymore and refuse to let go. they focus so hard that they're missing out on greatness. This Epic, blood boiling passionate love where the right person is waiting to LOVE you so good, so right, so amazingly mindblowingly well that you cant remember life before them. Love has a way of bleeding into your past and just taking over....like its always been there and once you found the right person, you could suddenly see it and it triggers this massive dosage of #endorphins into your whole body. Suddenly painful memories are easier to carry, some burdens disappear all together, the world is more beautiful and colors are brighter...lol...the whole drama! :)

Love heals. its not just a thing people say....its true.
When you finally let love in....its as if the person you've found and Love (and loves you back.....(cause if they don't you're just obsessing... which is socially acceptable for like 5 seconds but then its just creepy ) has ALWAYS loved you and been there.

isnt that something?


Yea I got all deep and shit lol

alrighty, I'm outta here! xo